Challenging Normal

Sometimes when our attitude is in the ditch we just need to step back and get a different perspective. See the situation from a different angle. Change where you are viewing the situation from. Take a more humble approach. Instead of taking offense to it, see how you can make it better. Instead of whining or complaining start serving and working. Nothing will change your perspective quicker than changing the angle that you are viewing in from.

Another thing that I try to do is to see it through different eyes. Sometimes we have to go to people that we love, trust, and respect and have them look at it. Get them to give you council. Two heads are better than one. Here is my warning. This is not a license to gossip. Find some person that you TRUST and will give you honest non-basis advice.

The last thing I would suggest you do is remove yourself out of the situation. Take a look at what you are going through and ask yourself if it would be different if you were not in the picture. That is a good indication to whether you are the problem or not.